A lesson learnt- Move on

It's strange how things that we think will stay forever, start to fall apart and we realize that we've grown out of that world of fantasies, of sweet nothings. Nobody could tell, looking at you, that something definitely is not right. Why is it that something that we crave for since a long time, suddenly seems as ordinary as any other thing,in the end when we finally get it? God, the more you think, the more it gets to you! Life is so simple and easy to live but then again, we THINK and there starts all the complications, the troubles, the tears and fears. Why do we ponder upon every little thing we do? The line that 'Do what your heart says' is pure cliche because no matter how much ever we want to believe that it works that way, it's a fact that it doesn't. We can never just do what our heart says and not think about it. Can we? I bet nobody here has done it! Our mind and thinking does play a big role. We fall in love with the idea of falling in love, with the idea of having someone or something exclusively to ourselves so much so that we often detour from sanity and reality. Things and ideas like those are not constant and will never stay the way we want them too. Most of us learn it the hard way. In my 18 years, I've seen myself grow and evolve in many ways, I've understood that the more we try to hold on to things and people we consider to be 'OURS' the more we are at the risk of losing them. Moving on doesn't always have to mean that you just erase your past, it means learning what your flaws and faults have cost you and trying to improve on those and building up a better you.